The famed American psychologist Wayne W.Dyer author of books as widely known as “Your Erroneous Zones” or “Ten Secrets for Success and Inner Peace”, says that failure is only an illusion and I really think that is whattrue.
An example with football.If a player throws a party for door trying to get a goal but the ball goes into the stands and that ruling does not win, you might think that’s a failure and if the match is critical, butcoldly analyzing things you could simply say that it is a fact that has produced an outcome, not a failure.
You can fail an open goal, but that was very appealing that decision should never be analyzed in terms of failure, because that will always determine subsequent actions that they take place.Always go back to try again and forget about the above error.
Returning to Wayne W.Dyer says that failure is only an opinion and a matter of opinion, therefore, specifically in football, and this applies to players and coaches, let’s not get carried away by the assessments carried out other.Anybody make us believe that we have failed at something when a failure is simply the result of an action we have done and we will always have the opportunity to re-run correctly, another thing is the importance we want to give.
In many cases it is other people and yourself that is predisposed to what we believe is a failure, so it must be avoided at all times those negative thoughts that lead us directly to things going wrong that produce anxiety anddepression and that conditions us greatly.
It is the ego in these cases a bad ally that frightens us say the idea that one is a failure and that shame can contact us by causing us anxiety just thinking that one will not live up to the circumstancesand this in the sports field is given continuously.
If we take the players there are certain we would call irrational thoughts that accompany them before a game and should be replaced with better ones to avoid that feeling of failure.
Before the game:
Example “A”, “A player wants to make a great game for the coach is satisfied with its performance, otherwise think that if your game has not been good enough, not coming back to play first the next game”.
Thinking +: “The player thinks of playing the game my best and if things go wrong you will always have another chance to play again and secure holder that things will go better.”
After the game:
Example “B”.”The player thinks that there should be better trained before playing the game, believes he has made a fool, he regrets having made little effort in training and feels guilty for the defeat of his team.”
Thinking +: “I will work harder and better in practice to be on top in the next match, I can do much better and both victories as defeats are a work of the whole team.”
In closing, I would say it is very important when producing bad results or mistakes are always judged to be the facts coldly and to seek to eliminate drastic absolutist terms that usually occur in the sport as expressions of “this is aout of life or death “or” never again have another chance “that only serves to add a dose of pressure” extra “that no benefit. Pick Up Soccer,Soccer News,Soccer Community